Another creation made.....come check it out at http://ddmcreations4sale.blogspot.com/
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
Saturday, November 19, 2011
Tough Day
We have been cleaning out my grandparents house for a couple of months and moving everything out to the garage to try to have an Estate sale. It wasn't so bad getting the things ready it was kind of fun having memories of their stuff. I also got to take some of their things home that I will cherish them forever. We had two weekends of the sale and it wasn't that bad watching people buy their things and seeing them go. However that changed today. We closed the sale up and packed the items up in boxes again and took them to DI. This is the place they would want their things to go since its operated by the church. I had a very hard time here. As the workers were loading their things in their bins and I watched it being wheeled away.....I lost it. I know it's just "things" but it was like saying goodbye all over again. Its been over 3 months since grandma passed away and I still have tough days. It's been 12.5 years since grandpa passed away and I still have tough days. I guess no one ever really gets over the grieving process...it gets easier just knowing they are in a better place and with each other.
My dad and aunt went through some or their papers today and she found some letters I wrote them during my first year of college. It was fun reading them. I loved them and I know they loved me a lot! One of the letters I wrote them was when grandpa was in the hospital. I told them it was so good knowing grandpa was responding a little and opened his eyes. Its good for these memories because I thought he was in a coma after brain surgery so I was glad he was able to see the people he loved.
Even though their earthly possessions are now scattered in a lot of different homes ....its only stuff. I have the memories...the love....and the knowledge that I know I will see them again someday. Grandpa....I miss your tight squeezing hugs that would make your hearing aids squeal and dancing with you! Grandma I miss your smile, your hugs, your cold hands holding mine....and the way you always told me I was beautiful. I'm so grateful you are my family and that my dad is your son. But most of all I'm so proud to your granddaughter.
My dad and aunt went through some or their papers today and she found some letters I wrote them during my first year of college. It was fun reading them. I loved them and I know they loved me a lot! One of the letters I wrote them was when grandpa was in the hospital. I told them it was so good knowing grandpa was responding a little and opened his eyes. Its good for these memories because I thought he was in a coma after brain surgery so I was glad he was able to see the people he loved.
Even though their earthly possessions are now scattered in a lot of different homes ....its only stuff. I have the memories...the love....and the knowledge that I know I will see them again someday. Grandpa....I miss your tight squeezing hugs that would make your hearing aids squeal and dancing with you! Grandma I miss your smile, your hugs, your cold hands holding mine....and the way you always told me I was beautiful. I'm so grateful you are my family and that my dad is your son. But most of all I'm so proud to your granddaughter.
Thursday, November 17, 2011
DDM Creations
It's been awhile since I updated our decoration blog, I just got bummed with no sales for awhile. My friend asked me to see it so it inspired me to update it again. I have to take some more pictures of our Christmas crafts when we put them up in a week...it was way over a year since I posted anything. I have now posted some of our Thanksgiving things we have made. I'm not here to sell them, but for everyone to admire them LOL Which one is worse? I love the way we do these and I love putting them in my yard. I think we do a pretty great job.
The pictures were taken from my cell phone yesterday so not the best....but go check it out sometime! http://ddmcreations4sale.blogspot.com/
The pictures were taken from my cell phone yesterday so not the best....but go check it out sometime! http://ddmcreations4sale.blogspot.com/
Tuesday, November 15, 2011
YSA VS. SINGLE ADULTS ---Apache Junction Style!
I learned some interesting tidbits about being single on Sunday. I attended a “fireside” for the AJ Stake for Single Adults. In our church, this is for anyone who is single (never married, divorced, windowed, etc) over the age of 30. AJ Stake doesn’t have anything in our area for Single Adults, just YSA (Young Single Adults, ages 18-29). So, we all met together and had an info session on what we wanted and how to start it. Here are some tidbits I learned:
1) YSA activities goals are to get married and learn the Gospel. More emphasis on getting married. Noted: if you are under 29 you need to get hitched! So, are you telling me now that I’m over 30 you’re not going to help me get hitched? Thank you!
2) Single Adult activity goals: These are for you to get out of your house and just socialize (not really to get married much anymore, not much emphasis on that anyway, this is my category I fit in now…over 30!)
3) From the Counselor in the Stake Presidency---girls don’t be shy, ask a boy out. That’s how my wife got me! Ummmm….no thank you! I have never been comfortable asking a boy out, even to the girl ask guy dances in high school. Noted: he said he was very shy and this is how all his relationship went, the girl pursued. Yes, this worked for my sister…she’s a pursuer, I’m a follower.
4) Single Adult Women- we were thanked for praising young mothers that they are doing a good job raising their babies and we smile and comfort those around us. Yes, this is exactly how I see my future going (sarcasm inserted here, I don’t know anything about raising babies, but good job!)
5) Single Adults in Apache Junction includes anywhere from 30 until you basically are no longer here (either by marriage or death??) I was the youngest one in that room! Getting ready to turn 32 has never felt so good! (Sarcasm once again)
6) Single Adults in the Apache Junction Stake equals over 800 of us! WHAT???? Yes, most are over the retirement age! LOL
7) Single Adults- if you never get married, be the best Aunt/Uncle, Friend, or whatever the case may be. Help those around you with children. So, my plan right now…is to become the Best Aunt out there! For my family…and also for my adoptive nieces/nephews! :)
Ok, enough sarcasm and stuff, but I thought it was funny. Especially that they flat out said Under 30 get married…and for anyone over, just socialize. Which is so not me right now. I’m so uncomfortable socializing anymore it’s ridiculous! But, one good thing out of this, I’m so thankful that they are going to start doing something to help us. I work really early in the mornings, so I can’t go to a lot of the activities like Family Home Evening clear in Tempe on Monday nights. So, that’ll be nice to have it close and meet people in my area. I’m thankful that the Stake Presidency finally sees this as a need and we’re starting it off. I just hope that I can overcome my fears and socialize>>>>> YIKES!
Oh…..and my friend Melissa got us volunteered to start the first Family Home Evening Group in AJ! Oh my gosh! Can this get any worse? Just kidding….I hope we start it off on a good note!
1) YSA activities goals are to get married and learn the Gospel. More emphasis on getting married. Noted: if you are under 29 you need to get hitched! So, are you telling me now that I’m over 30 you’re not going to help me get hitched? Thank you!
2) Single Adult activity goals: These are for you to get out of your house and just socialize (not really to get married much anymore, not much emphasis on that anyway, this is my category I fit in now…over 30!)
3) From the Counselor in the Stake Presidency---girls don’t be shy, ask a boy out. That’s how my wife got me! Ummmm….no thank you! I have never been comfortable asking a boy out, even to the girl ask guy dances in high school. Noted: he said he was very shy and this is how all his relationship went, the girl pursued. Yes, this worked for my sister…she’s a pursuer, I’m a follower.
4) Single Adult Women- we were thanked for praising young mothers that they are doing a good job raising their babies and we smile and comfort those around us. Yes, this is exactly how I see my future going (sarcasm inserted here, I don’t know anything about raising babies, but good job!)
5) Single Adults in Apache Junction includes anywhere from 30 until you basically are no longer here (either by marriage or death??) I was the youngest one in that room! Getting ready to turn 32 has never felt so good! (Sarcasm once again)
6) Single Adults in the Apache Junction Stake equals over 800 of us! WHAT???? Yes, most are over the retirement age! LOL
7) Single Adults- if you never get married, be the best Aunt/Uncle, Friend, or whatever the case may be. Help those around you with children. So, my plan right now…is to become the Best Aunt out there! For my family…and also for my adoptive nieces/nephews! :)
Ok, enough sarcasm and stuff, but I thought it was funny. Especially that they flat out said Under 30 get married…and for anyone over, just socialize. Which is so not me right now. I’m so uncomfortable socializing anymore it’s ridiculous! But, one good thing out of this, I’m so thankful that they are going to start doing something to help us. I work really early in the mornings, so I can’t go to a lot of the activities like Family Home Evening clear in Tempe on Monday nights. So, that’ll be nice to have it close and meet people in my area. I’m thankful that the Stake Presidency finally sees this as a need and we’re starting it off. I just hope that I can overcome my fears and socialize>>>>> YIKES!
Oh…..and my friend Melissa got us volunteered to start the first Family Home Evening Group in AJ! Oh my gosh! Can this get any worse? Just kidding….I hope we start it off on a good note!
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